Preparing for a Homeland Journey: Practical and Emotional Tips for Families

Posted by Gladney Center for Adoption on 10/20/25 4:30 PM

A return trip to China is an extraordinary opportunity for adoptees and their families. It’s a chance to connect with culture and heritage in a personal and powerful way—but like any meaningful journey, it requires thoughtful preparation. At Gladney, we want families to feel equipped not only with the right travel essentials but also with the emotional tools to make the most of this once-in-a-lifetime experience. 

Preparing Practically 

Pack with intention 
Beyond the basics, consider items that will support reflection during the trip—journals, sketchbooks, or even a family camera that allows your child to capture their perspective. These keepsakes often become treasured tools for processing memories long after returning home. 

Expect the unexpected 
Homeland journeys are rich with meaning, and not everything can be planned. Emotions may surface suddenly. Schedules may change. Approaching the trip with flexibility helps reduce stress and makes space for the moments that matter most. 

Build in rest 
These trips can be full of sightseeing, meeting new people, and visiting culturally significant places. Setting aside downtime is essential for children and teens to recharge and process what they have experienced. 

Preparing Emotionally 

Talk ahead of time 
Before the trip, begin conversations about what your child may see, feel, or wonder. Let them know that any emotion—joy, sadness, curiosity, or even disinterest—is normal and welcome. 

Acknowledge siblings 
If siblings are traveling, talk with them too. Encourage them to share what they’re looking forward to and what questions they might have. Recognizing their role helps them feel included and supported. 

Plan for reflection 
Whether through group discussions, journaling, or one-on-one conversations, make reflection a planned part of the journey. Gladney’s clinician will often lead these activities, creating space for adoptees and siblings to explore the meaning of their experiences. 

Think beyond the trip 
Remind your family that the journey doesn’t end when you return home. Continuing conversations, seeking clinical support, and connecting with peers who have shared similar experiences can all help sustain the growth that began during the trip. 

Our Commitment 
Gladney is here to walk alongside families as they prepare for this meaningful journey. By blending practical planning with emotional support, we help ensure that a homeland trip is not just a travel experience—but a powerful opportunity for identity, healing, and connection. 

Topics: Intercountry Adoption, International Adoption, Clinical Support

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